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How much do you spend on a wedding gift?

Does it depend on the couple? Your money situation? How large the reception is going to be?

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Asked by koon293 at 12:48 AM on Aug. 7, 2010 in Entertainment

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  • i did not hve to gert nothing for my sister or sister in law becasue i helped wth the wedding so i guess i got lucky

    Answer by regian19832002 at 12:51 AM on Aug. 7, 2010

  • ID take all of those things into account. Try and get something off the registry there all differnt prices and u know its something they want

    Answer by youngmomma021 at 12:57 AM on Aug. 7, 2010

  • It depends on your money

    Answer by mamaofficer at 12:59 AM on Aug. 7, 2010

  • It does depend on our money situation. Normally around $50 if we can afford it, if not I try buy something worth about $50 on sale that I know they could use like a huge pyrex or anchor hocking glassware cooking set that people don't register for but will truly use so much more than they know that I can buy on sale.

    Answer by jamesonjustines at 1:06 AM on Aug. 7, 2010

  • PS for a younger couple really just starting out, we normally do a Target gift card and if the reception isn't fancy but at the church for example I think $30 is fine and they can get whatever they really need. Might sound tacky but I try to match the amount I spend per head on what I feel they spent on the wedding if times are tight for us, and they usually are!

    Answer by jamesonjustines at 1:08 AM on Aug. 7, 2010

  • We asked for gift cards for our wedding and we got anything from $20 to $100, and we were grateful. So, whatever you feel you can afford I think is best.

    Answer by gnovinger at 1:10 AM on Aug. 7, 2010

  • DH and I tend to give a card and check for $100 regardless of the location\formality of the reception. We've only been to close friends' weddings, but I'm guessing we would vary that with how close we are to the couple, and how our financial situation is at that time.

    Answer by acollins09 at 2:42 AM on Aug. 7, 2010

  • The unofficial rule around our area is $50.0 per person if you attend the wedding, $50.0 if you are unable to attend.

    Answer by momx3gx1b at 5:33 AM on Aug. 7, 2010

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