You have been married for 12 years and you get an email that says, "I have been seeing your husband for x amount of months. I am pregnant with his child. I found out he was married when I announced my pregnancy to him." She ends it with, "if you have any questions, please call me," and leaves her number. How does this make you feel and how would you react to the news.
Asked by Anonymous at 4:25 PM on Oct. 5, 2008 in Relationships
Oh, my. After picking myself up off the floor I would have to call her first. Then I would talk with my DH to see what his side of the story is. Then I would be adamant about a paternity test when the baby is born.
That is a very serious and devastating issue.
Answer by Southerncharmes at 4:28 PM on Oct. 5, 2008
I'd be picking up the phone for sure. Then, I'd talk to my DH after. Why? Because I would assume he'd try to cover his tracks and lie. If the email was not threatening, I think she is informing you not trying to get you or hurt you. If she truly didn't know he was married then you can't be angry at her. I would be fact finding and then communicating, and the decision making. Until you know what is going on it is hard to even think about. I'm sorry this has happened to you. I can't imagine it, but you aren't the first woman in this situation nor the last. It just isn't fair. Where have ethics gone?
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