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Should I take the kids or go alone?

I need to get away from my husband this weekend to think about our marriage. We have a 6 and 8 yr old. Should I take them with me or leave them with him for 2 days. I will be coming back Sunday night. I just need to think.

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 11:46 AM on Aug. 7, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (16)
  • Go by yourself your kids will see and feel your emotions ((HUGS))
    Truelove77

    Answer by Truelove77 at 11:48 AM on Aug. 7, 2010

  • Go alone.
    hornz102485

    Answer by hornz102485 at 11:47 AM on Aug. 7, 2010

  • I would go alone. You need time to really get in touch with what you want and how you feel. If you are having to care for the kids, then you won't be as focused on what you need to think about.

    Just make it clear to everyone that you need some time alone. There is nothing wrong with that.
    Cindy18

    Answer by Cindy18 at 11:48 AM on Aug. 7, 2010

  • Going alone would sound more reasonable as long as he doesn't say that you abandoned them by leaving????
    QandA

    Answer by QandA at 11:52 AM on Aug. 7, 2010

  • Go alone. You need time to really get in touch with what you want and how you feel... Daddy can keep the children he needs to know how hard we work at doing what we moms do .. Good luck and enjoy your peaceful days alone.
    MTM

    Answer by MTM at 11:52 AM on Aug. 7, 2010

  • Go alone as long as you trust him with them. I don't know how you'd really be able to think with the kids there. Good luck!
    jamesonjustines

    Answer by jamesonjustines at 1:08 PM on Aug. 7, 2010

  • Go alone so you can really think things over with no distractions........good luck.
    elizabr

    Answer by elizabr at 1:41 PM on Aug. 7, 2010

  • Go alone, what kind of thinking will you be able to do with the kids with you?
    bcauseimthemom

    Answer by bcauseimthemom at 1:56 PM on Aug. 7, 2010

  • Go alone you'll be able to think better.
    Cassandre

    Answer by Cassandre at 2:22 PM on Aug. 7, 2010

  • I would say go alone so u can think about everything
    LiLJeni

    Answer by LiLJeni at 5:34 PM on Aug. 7, 2010

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