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what kinda questions do you ask a guy getting to know him?

ok i met this guy on facebook (haha i contacted him first) what sort of questions is too much to ask over the computer? like do you have any brother or sisters or do you drink or smoke (b/c i don't want a guy that does alot) whats to much or something you shouldn't be asking at first?

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Asked by Anonymous at 8:40 PM on Aug. 7, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (7)
  • Do you have kids
    been married before
    have a job
    own a home
    have a car
    have a criminal record

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 8:43 PM on Aug. 7, 2010

  • I would start on what he does for fun...
    What movies he likes and why...

    Answer by tryin2BGOOD at 8:44 PM on Aug. 7, 2010

  • I find that conversations bring out the best answers. That asking specific questions tend to leave the conversation awkward and a little lack into what that person is about. However, asking about general family is fine. Asking if he drinks/smokes is fine. Asking about what type of job he does. Does he like his area. What kind of hobbies he has. General things like that. Those tend to lead to more of a conversation if you two allow it. But like I said, conversation about general topics is more in depth then specific questions.

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 8:45 PM on Aug. 7, 2010

  • I ask about kids, family cheating and where he sees his life going in five years does he have goals and does he like to work and hustle for those goals or does he just talk shit?

    Answer by pinkdragon36 at 8:48 PM on Aug. 7, 2010

  • Do you have any kids?
    You're not married, are you...?
    If I told you I have kids, how would you react?

    Answer by Fallaya at 8:51 PM on Aug. 7, 2010


    this is a good way to really get to know someone beyond a yes or no... of course the first poster listed some important questions... very important... but the above will really give you a good idea - they get more personal as they go... start slowly.

    Answer by figaro8895 at 11:00 PM on Aug. 7, 2010

  • "How many life-size silicone sex dolls do you own?"
    "How many loads of laundry have you done over the course of your lifetime?" (if the number is less than 10, it's a dealbreaker)
    "Cat Person, Dog Person, Ferret Person?" (no ferret people, ferrets are the Unpet)
    "Have you ever lived in your vehicle? If so, for how long?"
    "How do you deal with stress?" (if his answer involves shooting squirrels, lighting fires in mailboxes or 19-hour marathon sessions of WOW, you may want to reconsider)

    Answer by Fistandantalus at 10:34 AM on Aug. 8, 2010

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