How would you feel if your mom died and a year later your dad was messing around with a girl younger than you? And by younger than you, I mean he's 50 and she's 20. She's also a whore, been to rehab God knows how many times, and had a kid when she was 15 and got it taken away and lost her rights. I want to completely disown my dad. She even broke into his house with another guy while he was at work and robbed him blond but he still took her back.
Am I overreacting by wanting to completely disown him and not have anything to do with him over that?
Asked by Anonymous at 3:33 AM on Aug. 8, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by DeeMarie87 at 3:38 AM on Aug. 8, 2010
Answer by iainsmommy at 3:55 AM on Aug. 8, 2010
Answer by misspriss_1987 at 3:56 AM on Aug. 8, 2010
I would say how you feel and leave it at that maybe your father needs to be introduced to people or have some intervention maybe he is lost himself? Imagine how this young woman must sense that he is lonely he has your family but the loss of a mate or a wife is hard for him because he lost his best friend and the love of his life. Now maybe you could suggest he find someone else. I would start talking to some of his friends and maybe even him. But also just say what you have to without yelling or getting upset sit down talk to her and ask her what she is doing. GL Momma
Answer by pinkdragon36 at 5:39 AM on Aug. 8, 2010
Answer by bjane01 at 9:40 AM on Aug. 8, 2010
Answer by dutchcanadain at 10:02 AM on Aug. 8, 2010
Answer by Scuba at 11:00 AM on Aug. 8, 2010
Answer by BobbieJo286 at 2:06 PM on Aug. 8, 2010
My mom actually just passed away a couple of weeks ago, so I can sympathize with you. I have a friend who is my age and she likes older guys. I have always pictured her trying to get with my dad, who is in his 60s, if my mom ever did die because she likes older men. I would be furious, and annoyed, and disgusted. But you have to give him time. He will see it eventually. Right now, he is still grieving, and he thinks that by being with a younger woman, that it will make him feel better faster. What he doesn't realize is that will not make him feel better. Just be patient, because he is going to need you when he wakes up from his dream. You might want to get him involved in some clubs around town. Find something he has an interest in, other than younger girls, and make him get involved. But, please, do not disown him. I think that would destroy him faster than anything else. Good luck.
Answer by krissyvelazquez at 3:53 PM on Aug. 8, 2010
Answer by misspriss_1987 at 6:11 PM on Aug. 8, 2010
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I hate it when he freakin' does this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!