Well yesterday my husband and I had a fight grante he was drunk and we both started to argue and he had said some nasty things to me and we had both stopes of ( that's the short nice version of the story) so today we woke up and the first things out of my mouth were look at me do I look happy I'm so emotionaly tierd I try so hard in this relationship that you seem so comferrable with not even trying. I'm phiacly sick I can't sleep or eat iv had 3 miscarages and with all of that I get stressed and hopeles. And I could see in his face he understood and the rest of the day he acted like he cared I don't know if he means it or not but it was an effort for me . And I was happy today. I haven't been this happy in a long while. But I don't know how long this may last and I'm scared it won't last that long I did tell him that but I don't think he grasps the point so I'm left here with a blind fold over my eyes. Should i forgive?Answer Question
Answer by DeeMarie87 at 3:50 AM on Aug. 8, 2010
Answer by iainsmommy at 3:59 AM on Aug. 8, 2010
Answer by pinkdragon36 at 5:19 AM on Aug. 8, 2010
First, what was the fight about? Why are you so upset all the time? If you are not happy in your relationship, get out of it. Be happy. Or does all this stem from the miscarriages? If so you need to sit him down a talk to him?
Answer by louise2 at 7:16 AM on Aug. 8, 2010
Answer by bjane01 at 9:00 AM on Aug. 8, 2010
Answer by dutchcanadain at 9:45 AM on Aug. 8, 2010
Answer by Scuba at 10:56 AM on Aug. 8, 2010
Answer by figaro8895 at 12:30 PM on Aug. 8, 2010
Answer by Raine2001 at 12:44 PM on Aug. 8, 2010
Forgive him, if that's what you want, but you have to understand that people need time and patience to change. My DH seemed that way for a long time, but recently he has been wonderful. He has been more patient and understanding. He spends more time with the kids. We still have moments where we want to smack the other, but our relationship is better than ever. If you are willing to devote the time, he will get better. He will grow up and understand you more. That is what I had to wait for with my DH, was that he grew up. I know how frustrating and energy consuming, but like I said, if you really love him, try and stick it out. I'm sure he does understand how you feel; he just needs time to be able to work this understanding into his attitude. Good luck with what ever you choose.
Answer by krissyvelazquez at 3:48 PM on Aug. 8, 2010