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do u beleive that your man doesn't fantasize about other women?

my hubby says he never thinks about other women during sex cause theres no point in it. its hard to believe him cause you always hear about men doing this. hell i even do it sometimes.

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Asked by Anonymous at 8:19 PM on Oct. 5, 2008 in Relationships

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  • he may.... but prolly not every time.. and mabe he doesn't during sex but throughout the day.. He might....

    Answer by emturner at 8:21 PM on Oct. 5, 2008

  • of course he does. there is always that wonder with being with someone else.

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:21 PM on Oct. 5, 2008

  • I don't think my hubby does it during sex, most men arent real complicated. If theyre in the middle of getting pleasure, thats enough...
    Now during the day...LOL Halle Berry just might be running in his mind!!

    Answer by sweet-a-kins at 8:26 PM on Oct. 5, 2008

  • If he says he doesn't, why would you not believe him? He isn't saying he never fantasizes, just not during sex with you, so it isn't that hard to believe. I have lots of fantasies...but when I'm in bed with my husband he is the only one on my mind.

    Answer by jespeach at 8:27 PM on Oct. 5, 2008

  • I think mine probally has but hed never admit it!

    Answer by Anangelsmommy7 at 9:18 PM on Oct. 5, 2008

  • If he says he didnt, he may not have. But that doesnt mean he doesnt think about it during the day, or if he decideds to get himself off. Im sure my husband does it. As long as he doesnt act on his fantasy, i dont mind. I think about other people (celebrities) sometimes too. Just not during sex.

    Answer by stampmama at 9:33 PM on Oct. 5, 2008

  • LOL, I dont think my hubby thinks about other women during sex, he's looking at me, doens't close his eyes...Well, I'm sure it has happened. I dont care though...I KNOW he does during masterbation because he looks at porn. It doens't bother me though, he loves me and he's with me. I mean, I have fantasized alone, so why should I care.

    Answer by raybell at 9:59 PM on Oct. 5, 2008

  • He says he doesn't, but it doesn't really bother me if he does. I know I'm the hottest thing in the world to him because I'm the only chick he gets to touch =]

    Answer by caitxrawks at 10:07 PM on Oct. 5, 2008

  • My hubby says the same thing, even during the day. I tease him about it cause I know he does but it dont bother me I know hes mine

    Answer by gavrilmom at 10:56 PM on Oct. 5, 2008

  • He probably does fantasize about other women, but why in the world would you want to hear him say that? Ouch! If I were him, I'd lie too!

    Answer by shmorris56 at 11:06 PM on Oct. 5, 2008

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