4 years ago left home and moved across the country to Southern california to be with my now husband who was in the military. Well 2 years ago we moved to georgia when he got out and my mom showed up on my doorstep. She packed her truck, quit her job and left NY to live down in georiga.
Since im the only person she has here, she is a very rude and mean person and its hard for her to make friends. She feels that i need to spend all of my spare time with her. She called yesterday to get my help for something, i told her we had plans with our neighbors that day, she threw a fit because she didnt know about it. But she wasnt invited. Her and my dad are divorced and my dad and his wife are coming up for 2 weeks and i told her that dad didnt want to see her, she threw a fit saying she was going to show up because he needs to grow up. i dont get it, How do i tell my mom she isnt invited to everything that my family wants to do?
you can do two things, tell her that she is not invited or not tell her about the events. I think in the end, it would be better to not tell her about the events. If she is going to throw fits and act childish no matter what, then it is better if she doesn't know about what your family is doing. Also, you need to sit down with her and tell her that she needs to get some hobbies and help her look for some things that she can do that is close to where she lives. This will help her make friends. My mom was friendly, on the outside, but she had a harsh side about her. You need to figure something out because there will be a time when all you can remember is the whining and the fighting. Good luck.
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Not really sure wht you should do but maybe just be honest with her...Good luck...
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