Going pee is OK. He runs to the bathroom, "I gotta pee". He just will NOT stop pooping in his pants. We have tried EVERYTHING! Charts, treats, specail places, take toys away, no tv/movies, no video games, no computer, no friends over. We keep telling him that friends will make fun of him if he goes poop in his pants at school. My husband and I are at the end of our wits with this. I don't know if his teacher will wipe him if I put a pullup on him. Ever since he was a baby, his poop has always been so stinky too. So, if he goes... you can smell it! Any advice? Think his teacher will help him wipe? If he goes in a pull up, it's all over and he won't be able to clean it up him self. I'm very worried about him tomarrow:( Oh... I forgot to mention he never went to pre-school. We live in a small town, and there was lack of class space for him. Was on a waiting list for over 2 years and never got in.
Thanks in advance for any help:)
First of all, he's not going to get kicked out of school. No child of school age can be denied and education. Kids with problems far more severe then this attend public schools. This is actually a fairy common problem. The teacher won't wipe him. It's not appropriate. But he might be sent to school nurse for help. Many kids just hold it until they get home. They train themselves to go at night or in the morning. Or when the teacher or nurse tells him he has to do himself, he may just do it. Kids sometimes respond much better to other authority figures than mom and dad.
You should just be upfront with the teacher about it. She'll let you know what to do.
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