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Should a man teach WOMENS self defense??

My husband has no experience teaching, or about womens self defense, he was in beginners ji-jitsu, but he has never done this before. When my sister asked him to teach her how to lift weights he said no, but he is all about teaching this class, with another INexperienced male. I told him I wasnt comfortable. I am 8 months pregnant, am I just being emotional??

 
domm721

Asked by domm721 at 10:16 PM on Oct. 5, 2008 in Relationships

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  • Should a man teach women self defense? Absolutely
    Should YOUR man teach women self defense? Absolutely not. Not because he's a man, not because your worried about him as a man being around women (because that's just silly jealousy speaking)...but because he is not qualified to do it. Women take these classes and then they sometimes end up staking their lives on what they've learned. If he is not qualified, he has NO business doing it...and you need to do whatever you can to prevent it.
    jespeach

    Answer by jespeach at 11:48 PM on Oct. 5, 2008

  • I have no problem with a man teaching it, but I DO have a problem with an inexperienced person teaching it.
    catwalksymphony

    Answer by catwalksymphony at 10:27 PM on Oct. 5, 2008

  • I don't think they should be teaching a class on self defense unless they have the experience behind them.
    sammiesmom2000

    Answer by sammiesmom2000 at 10:27 PM on Oct. 5, 2008

  • No...it sounds like whether or not he is a man, he's not qualified to be teaching the class period. I, personally, wouldn't have a problem with a man teaching me a self defense class, but I have never been attacked or really feared a man before...I imagine a lot of the women in these classes have had something happen to them to where they feel the need to be there...a rape, a robbery, an assault...god only knows what they've been through. I would want to consider how they would feel if your husband was "practicing" with them and all those bad memories came coming back...could they learn what they needed to?
    kabbot01

    Answer by kabbot01 at 10:28 PM on Oct. 5, 2008

  • thanks ladies
    domm721

    Answer by domm721 at 10:38 PM on Oct. 5, 2008

  • Coming from a 6th dan in Goshin DO Kempo Samurai Jujitsu ,
    "They have no business teaching anyone anything, and they are just looking to get sued"
    hibicent

    Answer by hibicent at 10:38 PM on Oct. 5, 2008

  • I agree that they need to be experienced, but I have no problem with a man teaching me anything to do with self defense. Who better to tell a woman how to hurt a man than a man?
    rhope4

    Answer by rhope4 at 10:45 PM on Oct. 5, 2008

  • ALL OF THESE ANSWERS R GOOD 1S!!!!!
    LovingParent08

    Answer by LovingParent08 at 11:10 PM on Oct. 5, 2008

  • I have no problem with a man teaching self defense...seriously, how many attacks on women are made by other women? I want to learn how to kick a man's butt..not a womans...I can do that! lol Honestly, as long as they are experienced I see no problem with it.
    sheena696

    Answer by sheena696 at 11:16 PM on Oct. 5, 2008

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