I am writing because I am for a loss not because I want a hand out or looking for attention. I have been out of a relationship that lasted for 4.5 years, I was in a situation where my children or I did not want for anything. I then get a eye opener one day when he said he was done. We were not married, nor did we have children together, He was however all my 4 yr old ever knew. Since then, my finances have been dwindling to nothing. I have had 2 jobs since the break up, and lost them both. I went back to school to get loans to help until I found something stable, and with the loss of jobs the stress took over me and I failed witch now I am not eligible for anymore loans. I am now in a CRISIS...I have noooot a dime to my name and cannot pay ONE bill nor get gas money to look for a job. ON top of it all my children do not have any clothes for school. I think I am now at a point where I think I will have to give my kids up.....
Answer by mtnmama111 at 11:41 PM on Aug. 9, 2010
People don't give their kids up. There is help for women with kids that don't have any money. If there isn't help where you live go to another city where there is. In Tucson there are free apartments for moms with kids and they help you find jobs and provide free child care. A friend of mine worked there. You live in a tent before you give your kids up. I have done that before.
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