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Do you turn your DH/So down for sex?

If so what is the main reason they get turned down for sex and I mean besides AF!


Asked by twinmama2five at 5:54 AM on Aug. 9, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (15)
  • I never turn my husband down. We have a great marriage and I love him more than anything. I love making love to him. I wouldn't say I feel like it's my "duty" but I just don't feel right telling him I would rather not make love to him.
    He pretty much knows when I'm not in the mood so if he wants to fool around he knows how to get me in the mood.

    Answer by michelle5971 at 7:28 AM on Aug. 9, 2010

  • My Dh gets turned down if he's spent the day ignoring me and just wants me for sex. I'm not his toy. If he wants a wife, I'll be there for him, but if he wants a nanny and a maid, then he'll get just that.

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:59 AM on Aug. 9, 2010

  • If I am not feeling it or good.

    Answer by momto3infl at 6:41 AM on Aug. 9, 2010

  • Because sometimes he looks like a filthy, stinky homeless man when he comes back from work and expects me to be all a-quiver with desire- I DON'T THINK SO.

    Answer by IhartU at 7:08 AM on Aug. 9, 2010

  • Yep my dh gets turned down all the time. I just don't feel the need to be intimate with him most of the time.

    Answer by Moms_Angels1960 at 7:21 AM on Aug. 9, 2010

  • I do it as often as necessary, there has to be 2 parties interested at the same time. My reasons are irrelevant.

    Answer by older at 8:30 AM on Aug. 9, 2010

  • Never. Then again, DH doesnt ever propose sex if I am upset, not feeling well, etc. He knows me well enough to not try if I am not in the mood.

    Answer by RheaF at 8:54 AM on Aug. 9, 2010

  • i never turn my dh down ..

    Answer by san78 at 6:20 AM on Aug. 9, 2010

  • Very rarely anymore. I used to all the time. That was prior to when we separated. I didn't realize how much he just likes sex and the physical closeness until I paid attention more to him. I feel bad now for telling him no all the time. We are so much closer now.

    Answer by bjane01 at 7:37 AM on Aug. 9, 2010

  • I don't ever turn him down lol. He use to turn me down all the time because he was toooooo tired, but after almost cheating on him and me telling him I almost did and telling him why now we have a really good sex life. He tells me I want it more than any omen he knows lol

    Answer by mommy5409 at 8:35 AM on Aug. 9, 2010