My husband is in the army, i just recently found he has membership to adult friend finderds.com and horny matches .com looking for decreat one on one sex. local only... already attached just looking for fun...do it for your contry. the worst was another he had that said man and girl looking for another girl main prob being it was not my birthdate he entered... he says he not cheating and he sorry I SAID YEA THOUGHT YOU GOT CAUGHT SORRY MAYBE...he due to deploy soon...if he not faithful here how can he go 15 months so should i leave him so he can get it on for his contry??????Answer Question
Answer by Moniquemarie1 at 12:48 AM on Oct. 6, 2008
Answer by Anonymous at 12:53 AM on Oct. 6, 2008
I'm trying to understand what exactly you are asking...your initial question was "should I deploy" and then you switched to "should I leave him while he is deployed". What exactly are you asking?
Answer by AvasMommy810 at 12:55 AM on Oct. 6, 2008
Answer by moderndayslave at 12:59 AM on Oct. 6, 2008
Answer by Anonymous at 1:02 AM on Oct. 6, 2008
If he gets caught having an affair while deployed, he WILL do time in the brig. Adultery is a very serious matter in the Army. Trust is a necessity in a stable relationship. They test the soldiers for EVERYTHING when they get home from a deployment. I am a fellow Army wife and out of three extended deployments they have ALWAYS tested for diseases upon arrival in the US. DO NOT have sex with him until the testing is complete (it takes about a week depending on the unit). The only person that can make the decision to leave is YOU. If you feel in your heart that you cannot forgive him even after counseling I would suggest that you discuss divorce. If you have children together I say try extensive marital counseling when he returns.
Answer by AvasMommy810 at 1:04 AM on Oct. 6, 2008
Leaving him directly before or during a deployment could get him killed. A soldier needs to be focused on the job at hand while in the middle of a war. What's the rush to get divorced anyway? It would benefit NOBODY to get divorced before his deployment. At my husband's base (Fort Bragg) the Army requires that you go through marital counseling before you are allowed to divorce.
Answer by AvasMommy810 at 1:09 AM on Oct. 6, 2008
Answer by rikaree at 1:27 AM on Oct. 6, 2008
Answer by Anonymous at 7:20 AM on Oct. 6, 2008
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