my SO has all of my passwords to everything of mine on the computer, i feel like i have nothing to hide, so sometimes if he's on the computer i'll ask him to sign me on to whatever site...well, i was just messing with him last night and said, hey, want me to check your myspace for you, and he flipped out, saying that he will give me his password when he's sure there is nothing on there that will cause anything between us...so that right there proves that he's got stuff on there that he shouldn't have, right? my feelings are hurt, not even because i wanted his password, i really didn't, but because the principle of the whole thing, am i right to feel that way? please, no comments about how terrible social networking is, thats not what this is about
when 2 people have been in a relationship this long, we should be more willing to open up and communicate, and lately it seems like he's pulling back, i wonder if this is why?
Asked by Anonymous at 12:35 PM on Aug. 9, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by shanlaree at 12:39 PM on Aug. 9, 2010
Answer by oppsdiditagain at 12:39 PM on Aug. 9, 2010
Answer by Moms_Angels1960 at 12:41 PM on Aug. 9, 2010
Answer by faithhopeclan2 at 12:41 PM on Aug. 9, 2010
Answer by samurai_chica at 12:41 PM on Aug. 9, 2010
That would make me wonder what was on there?
Answer by eluc at 12:53 PM on Aug. 9, 2010
Answer by Orionsgirl at 1:09 PM on Aug. 9, 2010
Answer by michelle121003 at 1:13 PM on Aug. 9, 2010
I think you have a right to feel the way you feel; and like you said it's not the fact that you really wanted the passwords but his overall reaction of his request. The way he acted would make me even more suspicious of my husband if he gave me the same response. There should be nothing there that he wants to hide or clear up before he gives you the password.
Answer by LuvmyFam6 at 1:17 PM on Aug. 9, 2010
Answer by MeandMyBabes at 1:30 PM on Aug. 9, 2010