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What do you do when your guy is chatting with local girls?

Also that he is texting and talking on the phone with them. He swears that he is not meeting them and its just something he does while you are not around.

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Asked by jc33swann at 8:22 PM on Jun. 29, 2008 in Relationships

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  • What is good for the goose is good for the gander....give him a little taste of his own medicine...maybe he will wake up to how "harmless" flirting can be. good luck

    Answer by MommasCooCoo at 8:34 PM on Jun. 29, 2008

  • Thankfully I do nothing because my husband would never dream of doing that. However, you need to really sit him down and talk to him and ask him how he would feel if you were the one out talking to other local men. I think this shows a huge lack of disrespect on his part and he needs to be put in his place.

    Answer by MamaPyratekk at 8:47 PM on Jun. 29, 2008

  • I think it's refreshing to hear that you two can discuss this openly. I wouldn't tempt his wrath or the repercussions of retaliation with the same juvenile and inappropriate behavior though. I would tell him how it makes you feel and ask him to not continue doing it. There is enough in life to keep him busy without chatting with other women. What ever happened to guys hanging with other guys while you are gone?

    Answer by admckenzie at 8:51 PM on Jun. 29, 2008

  • Your guy tells you that he texts other girls because you are not around? That's clue number one that he's a very weak man.

    With that said, why would you want to be in a relationship with a man who has to have other female attention while you are away? Does this mean that you stop living just to be with him every second so he would not cheat? Doesn't sound like this guy is serious about a relationship if he's texting other females.


    Answer by mom2mybabes at 8:58 PM on Jun. 29, 2008

  • Ide cancell the internet service and get the cell number changed and talk to him about how it makes you feel. Internet chatting it one thing, a text is personal and he is probally cheeting and taking advantage of your trusting nature.

    Answer by vbruno at 9:03 PM on Jun. 29, 2008

  • its just something that he does when ur not around? hes calling and texting? im sorry, but that sounds really shady to me. i dont think that he is as innocent as he claims to be, cause if they were just friends then he wouldnt mind doing it in front of u.

    Answer by kissmiss213 at 2:47 AM on Jun. 30, 2008

  • thats call cheating,if he has to do it when you are not around,that means he doesnt want you hear or know what hes telling this girls, why does he needs to talk to other girls do you know them, if not tell him that you want to know them and you'll see what kind of reaction he has is he doesnt mind there prob nothing but if he puts a big fuzz honey you are in trouble, and how did find out, about this, did he told you or did you just happend to find out

    Answer by mariposa77 at 10:20 AM on Jul. 2, 2008

  • it's cheating. why is he talking to other random girls? just cuz you're not around and he's bored??!! what's guna happen if you're not in the mood for sex from time to time?

    Answer by Dark_Princess_2 at 3:29 PM on Jul. 3, 2008

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