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I had a girlfriend of sorts? She's maybe still married I don't know or care, anyway. She asked me once if I didn't get something I wanted NOT due to a fight, just wanted, did I hold back on sex. I said no, I didn't get married to play games, I got married to be happy and have sex. If I want something and he might have disagreed, we may have had our words, but we had our sex too, then handle that in other ways. How about you gals?


Asked by MyAngel003 at 3:56 PM on Aug. 10, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (15)
  • No, Not a chance! I would never withhold sex simply because I wanted something... That's not love.

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 4:03 PM on Aug. 10, 2010

  • No. It does nothing for a marriage. I don't use sex as a punishment or a bargaining tool.

    Answer by lifetimelove at 3:58 PM on Aug. 10, 2010

  • I only hold back sex if we are fighting and/or he's being a jerk to me.

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 3:59 PM on Aug. 10, 2010

  • If I'm really mad I don't want to have sex but I wouldn't intentionally hold back sex just to get what I want. That's not an adult reponse to the situation.

    Answer by GigantaursMommy at 4:12 PM on Aug. 10, 2010

  • Never would I do that to him or our relationship. The only times I don't have sex are when I'm too tired or perhaps if we are having an argument and I'm not in the mood then.

    Answer by worriedmommy600 at 4:53 PM on Aug. 10, 2010

  • No, It doesn't do either of us any good. I don't play games.

    Answer by KandDsmama1 at 5:12 PM on Aug. 10, 2010

  • No, I am not a child.

    Answer by gulfcoastmom4 at 5:27 PM on Aug. 10, 2010

  • If I am angry no sex for him or me.

    Answer by older at 3:57 PM on Aug. 10, 2010

  • Anger sex is the best..I don't with hold cause it makes you trashy like yoou whore yourself out to your husband

    Answer by Claudiomom at 4:00 PM on Aug. 10, 2010

  • sometimes its out of my hand. i have before, because i would be so mad i didnt wanna look at him. but not usually. i used to alot when i first got married but then found other smarter approaches. it seemed childish afterwards.

    Answer by fefe87 at 4:07 PM on Aug. 10, 2010