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Sex after baby? adult content

I just had my 2nd and last child, a baby girl, 2 weeks ago today. She was 5 lbs 12 oz 20 inches. I had a natural birth with no tears. My question is how is sex gunna be? I'm already super horny, but I dont go back to the doctors until next week...i go back at 3 weeks because I had a tubal. Anyways, I've lost all my baby weight, have no stretch marks and a flat belly, not to mention huge boobs from nursing, i just feel sexy....I was very swollen after birth, but now it looks smaller than before I got pregnant. I'm just scared my husband wont enjoy sex as much, kinda like shooting a hotdog down a hallway kinda thing....and im afraid I wont enjoy it either....whats your experience?

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Asked by KaylaMarie425 at 6:11 PM on Aug. 10, 2010 in Pregnancy

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  • with my other 2 it was just as good after i had the baby lol . i would wait until after your doc appt tho to make sure everything is back to normal and there is no other problems

    Answer by britme1027 at 6:13 PM on Aug. 10, 2010

  • make him wear a condom for extra friction, I didn't want to wait either (after both a c-section and a tubal it was a bit over a week)

    Answer by mom2priceboys at 6:14 PM on Aug. 10, 2010

  • wait if y ou can but if not we did it at two week too it hurt a little at first and then it was okay.......i mean if it hurts just tell him you need to stop and im sure he will be fine!

    Answer by saadamarie at 6:17 PM on Aug. 10, 2010

  • Two vaginal deliveries of 7+ lb kids and while we did wait until about 6-8 weeks after and I did tear a little (about 1/2 inch) with both sex is really no different then it was before for me and DH says it isn't either. Our kids are 3 and 5 years now.

    Answer by aeneva at 7:11 PM on Aug. 10, 2010

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