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i want to know the best ways to be sure i stay intimate with my husband now that the baby is born. my problem is he works 2 jobs and we hardly see each other how can i make sure we maintain connected?

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Asked by kaydee8 at 10:26 PM on Aug. 10, 2010 in Babies (0-12 months)

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  • be spontaneous

    Answer by kaylan010 at 10:27 PM on Aug. 10, 2010

  • What she ^^^ said.

    Answer by outstandingLove at 10:30 PM on Aug. 10, 2010

  • Write him letters, text him, make a date night. Get together whenever possible. Keep communication open.

    Answer by JoyandLove at 10:32 PM on Aug. 10, 2010

  • Sometimes you have to schedule sex to keep things alive in the bedroom.

    Answer by FrenchGrey at 10:32 PM on Aug. 10, 2010

  • sometimes you have to make room for it but like kaylan said whenever you see an opportunity go for it

    Answer by baby1mom at 10:33 PM on Aug. 10, 2010

  • I agree that you have to be spontaneous sometimes. If DH works a lot, or if you have 2 kids like we do, you have to figure out/schedule intimate time.

    Answer by trish2tew at 10:35 PM on Aug. 10, 2010

  • ok that helps. i got pregnant only two weeks after we were married and the same thing happened with my parents and they ended up divorced. so i really don't want that.

    Comment by kaydee8 (original poster) at 10:54 PM on Aug. 10, 2010

  • Have sex whenever the oppertunity arises, leave him love notes, talk about your days, have sex while baby is awake in another room(nothing wrong with that :) I have 4 kids. If I can do it any body can lol :)

    Answer by crazymom21 at 1:39 AM on Aug. 11, 2010

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