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Ugh... (just a quick little vent)

my DH gets mad at me when I want to look at black guys.. not really looking for advice or anything.. just so annoyed by this

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Asked by febmom007 at 12:13 AM on Aug. 11, 2010 in Relationships

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  • If you are married then why would you need to look at other guys for?

    Answer by itsallabtthem84 at 1:03 AM on Aug. 11, 2010

  • Lol my husband gets mad at me when I look at other men but I don't look at them like I want them I just look lol I know I got myself a great hot man but sometimes there are those other ones lol

    Just have some fun with it lol tease him and say oophh yea look at that then just laugh lol that's what I do

    Answer by jmcwilly at 1:26 AM on Aug. 11, 2010

  • I don't get it... unless you are making a total neck gawking sceen or obnoxious comments... how does your DH even know you are looking at other guys?

    Answer by Niki_sd at 1:30 AM on Aug. 11, 2010

  • I just don't know what to say to

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 1:31 AM on Aug. 11, 2010

  • can you appreciate if he looks at other women

    Answer by A11 at 1:40 AM on Aug. 11, 2010

  • um, if you are married why are you wanting to look at black guys? I'd be pissed if my husband "wanted" to look at any other girl, regardless of her skin color. Sorry, but it's disrespectful in my opinion.

    Answer by TarLion at 11:28 AM on Aug. 11, 2010

  • he takes screen shots on my computer, and then looks at them every night. and I have told him that I used to hang around black guys.
    I'm just looking at pictures. I don't think it should be such a big deal. I let him look at porn. And it's not just adult porn.. He watches preteen porn..

    Comment by febmom007 (original poster) at 2:28 PM on Aug. 11, 2010

  • This is her husband posting and if you knew what i have gone through...If I posted here all the things i had forgiven you ladies would likely not be so supportive of her... and a little understanding of me... Flame if you like her parents just found out how she betrayed them and she likely will leave me your rants wont hold a candle to the pain of losing her even after all these betrayals i still love her i guess your right I really am sick...

    Comment by febmom007 (original poster) at 6:10 PM on Aug. 11, 2010

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