IDK, about that. I don't think I would put myself in that situation in the first place, but if you really want to stay and if he is willing to work on his lying then all you can do is try. He has to be 100% transparent in everything that he does. If you want to look through his cell, or his email then he should let you. Like on Dr Phil he says that the person who has lied or cheated has to be willing to let you be as nosey as you need to be until you are sure that he isn't lying to you anymore. He also says that the best predictor of his future behavior is his past behavior. Just don't let this person walk all over you. You deserve more than that!
at 7:48 AM on Aug. 11, 2010