My husband has cheated on me more than once and I have forgiven him but now I have found out more things. He has been living a double life and i am filing for child support and I want a divorce and he wanted it to. But now he wants to change his mind and try and get help for himself and try to make it work. he told me that he was not in love with me any more and was in love with some one else. Now that i have left him and have taken our kids with me he wants nothing to do with the other women and he starting to tell me that he still loves me.What should I do?Answer Question
Answer by m.robertson811 at 1:25 PM on Oct. 6, 2008
Answer by TiffanyLove18 at 1:28 PM on Oct. 6, 2008
Answer by Dark_Princess_2 at 1:28 PM on Oct. 6, 2008
Don't fall for it! I know how that one goes!! Don't...Just give it up...He's a loser and he got himself in this mess and hes should suffer the consequence..
Answer by Anonymous at 1:30 PM on Oct. 6, 2008
Answer by Kenzies_momma at 1:32 PM on Oct. 6, 2008
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Answer by MiiSSHiiSCAMP0S at 1:34 PM on Oct. 6, 2008
I think you should only forgive someone if they are truly sorry and not going to do it again, otherwise it's almost like giving permission as long as the transgression is followed by the magic words. I was in a relationship for years with a cheater, and I have a friend who is still with her cheater, I'm fairley confidant that a cheater doesn't change. I would recommend not going back and giving your self time to adjust and look at the situation when your not so close to it before making a decision about going back. We all deserve to by happy, we all deserve to feel loved, and even if you haven't met him yet, there is someone who will love you so much that they would never hurt you. Good luck with everything!
Answer by Lornamay at 1:35 PM on Oct. 6, 2008
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Answer by momothree5 at 1:51 PM on Oct. 6, 2008