I am not generally an insecure person, but for some reason, since I've been with my SO (11 months), I have been. He's not a very emotional person, as in he doesn't show a lot of emotion. He can be oblivious to things too.
I have gained and lost a lot of weight. Couple that with 4 pregnancies and nursing, and well, my body isn't what it used to be. Quite frankly, I'm embarrassed by it.
When we were discussing breast augmentation, he said he didn't think I would do it, as I don't like surgery. I said I don't, but I didn't want him to have to look at this for the rest of his life, and his response was "You look fine. No one is perfect". I know he was being nice, but I hear "You could look better, but whatever, I'll deal with it".
I don't know how to get past this. I know I have great qualities, but damned if I know what they are anymore. What is wrong with me? This is not the only thing, but I'm out of space
Asked by Anonymous at 12:16 PM on Aug. 11, 2010 in Relationships
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