My husband and I have an awesome relationship, seriously there is no jealousy between us. We actually have hung out with one of his ex's when we were in New Mexico visiting his family at one point. We are like best friends and we get along great. Well last night one of my ex's got in touch with me through facebook. This is the ex that should have never became a bf in the first place. At the time I dated him we were good friends and I had just left my husband who was very abusive and had become a single mother and was having a horrible time. This guy was there and pretty much one thing led to another, we only stayed together 2 weeks. My husband came around a year later and since then he adopted my oldest, we have a 2 yr old and a baby girl due in November, things are great. This guy wants to be friends again with me and my hubby, hubby is cool with it, we talked to him for like an hour and things went great.Answer Question
Answer by riotgrrl at 2:53 PM on Aug. 11, 2010
Answer by wheresthewayout at 2:59 PM on Aug. 11, 2010
I think it's great that your hubby is ok with it, it's great that there is no mistrust or jealousy in your relationship; I am sure it makes things a little easier. If your hubby is ok with you reconnecting as friends with this individual then it's okay. Me personally, I wouldn't do it. I wouldn't be ok with him being friends with his ex, at the moment he does speak to his ex because they have a child in common and I've been ok with that since I've known him, they have the child in common and I understand they have to co parent.
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