It's been 4 years that me and my boyfriend have been together. He talks about living together and future, but he hasn't proposed. I brought it up to him several times but he always says that it takes money. I told him that there are people that are struggling but managed to get married, even if it's a small ceremony. Its love. I don't even want to get married right away, I just want to be engaged. An engagement would let me know that he wants me for the long haul, even though he talks about living together. I just want to know for sure. I don't know what I should do.
Asked by Anonymous at 10:42 PM on Aug. 11, 2010 in Relationships
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Answer by crzymmy5 at 10:54 PM on Aug. 11, 2010
It does not take 4 years, nor does it take that much money to buy a engagement ring. it doesn't have to be real. So he is just making a excuse. If he really wanted to get married, he would have already. Don't waste your life away waiting on a man that is not willing to commit to you. You waited long enough let him know what you require and if he does not take action, you need to.
Answer by SylviaNCali at 1:12 AM on Aug. 12, 2010