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TMI my daughter was sexually assulted at 3.5years old...can she share a room with her sister after 2.5 years.? adult content

TMI my daughter was sexually assulted at 3.5years old...can she share a room with her sister after 2.5 years.? She was n councelling for a year when it happened and that councler said to seperate them. Now over 2 years later my councler said that I can put them together but I am really nervouse! Beacuse they say that once she could act out the atack at anytime on anyone younder then her.....her sister is 12 m younger.

My girls have been sleeping with me for the past 2.5 years because of this..........
I would LOVE to put them in the same room but I do not want to put my daughters at risk!!!!!
PLEASE HELP
Your opion would be great!
Or a direction on some advise would be great.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 11:14 PM on Aug. 11, 2010 in Kids' Health

Answers (11)
  • IMO, I would not. Sorry.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:16 PM on Aug. 11, 2010

  • I would wait...
    hill2

    Answer by hill2 at 11:17 PM on Aug. 11, 2010

  • I wouldn't.
    PoisonousBlonde

    Answer by PoisonousBlonde at 11:19 PM on Aug. 11, 2010

  • I wouldnt yet
    spowers43

    Answer by spowers43 at 11:27 PM on Aug. 11, 2010

  • so when do would you ladies allow it? Or not at all?
    four2bmws

    Answer by four2bmws at 11:29 PM on Aug. 11, 2010

  • I wouldn't at all.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:30 PM on Aug. 11, 2010

  • I would still wait. Just to be extra safe. Sorry to hear what happened, hope everything gets better.
    reigndrops12689

    Answer by reigndrops12689 at 11:41 PM on Aug. 11, 2010

  • I would put one of them in a room and keep the other with me. I would let them sleep in same room during naps r something to slowly ease her into it but dont rush her be patient. They would NOT be sleeping in my bed I would have a seperate baed for her in my room
    jazmya_mom

    Answer by jazmya_mom at 1:59 AM on Aug. 12, 2010

  • If you are worried then NOPE! Wait till later.
    IMAMOM2-2KIDS

    Answer by IMAMOM2-2KIDS at 3:10 AM on Aug. 12, 2010

  • If you don't trust the counselor's opinion, find a new therapist for your child.
    rkoloms

    Answer by rkoloms at 6:39 PM on Aug. 12, 2010

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