I'm black. I had 2 kids with a black man, and now I'm married and have 2 other kids with a white man. So obviously my kids look different. It shows in public and people have actually asked if they are truly siblings. If there is someone out there with the same issue, please tell me how you deal.
We like to go out as a family and those times are easily ruined when someone makes a comment or asks a weird question. "Is he her brother?" I know some of you gonna say its my fault and I shouldn't have kids with multiple fathers but that's the way my life is now and I can't/won't change it. Any help though?
Answer by m-avi at 1:15 AM on Aug. 12, 2010
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Answer by nappeal at 1:22 AM on Aug. 12, 2010
Answer by zadesmom1998 at 1:28 AM on Aug. 12, 2010
no with different father i have 3 kids with my husband fist two are white just like daddy blue and green eyes and my 3rd one look just like me 100% Latina dark hair tan and brown eyes people can be really harmful what matter is the u happy love ur kids so screw the world on what they think
Answer by evelyn334 at 1:34 AM on Aug. 12, 2010
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Answer by mamaofficer at 1:17 AM on Aug. 12, 2010
You have to do make the decision to not let what a stranger says matter too much. They could just be curious and you now have the burden of rethinking of what they said, why they said when it really should not matter. Don't let no one have that power over you. Be strong enough to just answer the one question and then tell them to have a nice day and walk away. Or don't answer at all and just walk away it's up to you.
Answer by SylviaNCali at 1:41 AM on Aug. 12, 2010