My fiancee is talking to this girl and she doesn't know we are together and she "wants" him. When I told him I didn't like the fact that she hasn't been informed of our engagement, he said that he told me about him talking to her and it means nothing to him. So it shouldn't matter to me... so am I being stupid for not wanting him to have contact with her?
Asked by Anonymous at 2:46 AM on Aug. 12, 2010 in Relationships
If you and he are in a committed relationship, leading to marriage, having a female friend is one thing, but if she has plans for your future spouse, he needs to tell the other woman, and then break off the relationship with her. I don't know how old all of you are, but if this is your first serious relationship, I would wait until I got married. Marriage is such a big deal I would not want you to get into something you cannot get out of without major heartache. I know I sound like your Grandma, but this is what I would tell my grown children. Good luck.
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