Hi everyone, I posted this question around midnight and got such a great response I decided to post it again, here goes:
I'm black. I had 2 kids with a black man, and now I'm married and have 2 other kids with a white man. So obviously my kids look different. It shows in public and people have actually asked if they are truly siblings. If there is someone out there with the same issue, please tell me how you deal.
We like to go out as a family and those times are easily ruined when someone makes a comment or asks a weird question. "Is he her brother?" I know some of you gonna say its my fault and I shouldn't have kids with multiple fathers but that's the way my life is now and I can't/won't change it. Any help though?
Answer by frogdawg at 11:24 AM on Aug. 12, 2010
Answer by shay1130 at 10:40 AM on Aug. 12, 2010
Answer by hill2 at 10:38 AM on Aug. 12, 2010
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Answer by KFree907 at 10:54 AM on Aug. 12, 2010
Answer by MoMoFu at 10:57 AM on Aug. 12, 2010
Answer by KamiB79 at 10:58 AM on Aug. 12, 2010
Answer by LoveMyDog at 11:01 AM on Aug. 12, 2010
Both of my daughters have the same dad, so I don't have that problem. Even my best friend who has 3 kids, 3 different dads lol look the same but mainly because she has always been with a Mexican guy since we are Mexican. Anyways though my friend is Guatemalan and she has 1 daughter with a Mexican guy and another daughter with an Afro Panamanian guy, so there is a BIG difference. Especially since her 1st daughter is super light skinned almost a pale while lol and her 2nddaughter looks black, of course everyone always ask her if they are sister and still have a hard time believing it lol. But I would say ignore those ignorant comments.
Answer by cynprz at 11:49 AM on Aug. 12, 2010