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Is your relationship 50/50 where you both make decissions and are both adults?

 
pinkdragon36

Asked by pinkdragon36 at 11:22 AM on Aug. 12, 2010 in Relationships

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  • yes
    regian19832002

    Answer by regian19832002 at 5:37 PM on Aug. 12, 2010

  • We discuss everything. Some thing's he's better at resolving and certain things I am.
    kathyartist2007

    Answer by kathyartist2007 at 12:01 PM on Aug. 12, 2010

  • My marriage is 100%/100% in that we both give everything to make sure the other person's feelings and person is protected. There is no "me". It is only "we." And that's the way I believe every marriage should work if it is to succeed. If it is always about "me" and what's right for me, and you must think about and consider me, the marriage is doomed to fail. There does have to be the freedom to be one's own person at the same time we are thinking of our mates. It's really a balance that has to be learned. It takes time and it takes patience, but it is so worth the effort.
    NannyB.

    Answer by NannyB. at 12:05 PM on Aug. 12, 2010

  • We discuss what needs to/should be done before making any big decisions. That is part of having open communication.
    ObbyDobbie

    Answer by ObbyDobbie at 11:24 AM on Aug. 12, 2010

  • Of course!
    missanc

    Answer by missanc at 11:45 AM on Aug. 12, 2010

  • Major decisions are ALWAYS discussed. When it comes to piddly things, we are adult enought to let each other make their own decisions. We have VERY good communication in our relationship.
    specialwingz

    Answer by specialwingz at 11:46 AM on Aug. 12, 2010

  • We discuss all major decisions and we often seek each others opinion on minor ones.

    beeky

    Answer by beeky at 11:56 AM on Aug. 12, 2010

  • Yes. Although there are certain things that each of us has a little special expertise and influence on... it all balances out.
    figaro8895

    Answer by figaro8895 at 12:02 PM on Aug. 12, 2010

  • Right on, NannyB!!!!
    specialwingz

    Answer by specialwingz at 12:25 PM on Aug. 12, 2010

  • Yes it is. We discuss every major decisions and decide together.
    Cassandre

    Answer by Cassandre at 1:16 PM on Aug. 12, 2010

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