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OMG what to do or say...

Im new to cafemom so i thought i would try to make new friends. I got a message from a person and they said that they cant be my friend b/c they dont know me(well u dont kno everyone on a website) anyway then she said something about she knows i would like her so i asked why b/c im blk cause thats the 1st thing that came to mind. She then said that i was the "R" word (but my dad is blk n wht and my mom is blk)so how would i be? and then she said i was a overly religious person but i never told her my religion.. Wth i was jus trying to make a new friend. lol

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Asked by keepingfaith831 at 11:32 AM on Aug. 13, 2010 in Entertainment

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  • Sounds like one "friend" you don't need.

    Answer by specialwingz at 11:34 AM on Aug. 13, 2010

  • I wouldn't worry about it. There are some crazy people out there. I wouldn't be sending friend requests to people that you do not know on here. And by 'know' I mean someone that you have at least chatted with in a group for an extended period of time. This just sounds like to dodged a bullet on a person that you probably didn't need to be friends with anyways.

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    Answer by BillieJean0401 at 11:35 AM on Aug. 13, 2010

  • Hang out for a while, join some groups, and you'll make friends. Either they'll request it, or you will after getting to know them a bit.

    Answer by SWasson at 11:38 AM on Aug. 13, 2010

  • thanks ladies i just thought that was so rude but its ok

    Comment by keepingfaith831 (original poster) at 11:40 AM on Aug. 13, 2010

  • Ignore her. She sounds like a weirdo, lol.

    Answer by LovingSAHMommy at 4:42 PM on Aug. 13, 2010

  • Maybe she's judging you by what she can see - your screenname says "keeping faith", your thought bubble says "you're praying" and your mood is "faithful". So she could assume that all deals with religion. I don't know but I'd say you probably don't need a friend "like that". There are plenty of other wonderful ladies on this site to become friends with. =)

    Answer by firenicecream at 5:53 PM on Aug. 13, 2010

  • that don't sound like a 'friend' you need jst ignore her.

    Answer by shorty13417 at 11:21 AM on Aug. 14, 2010

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