Welcome to the Hell that is My Life! I've been with my husband for 10 years (married for 5). She was crazy in the beginning. I thought she would eventually move on. She hasn't. Now I am just counting the years until my SS graduates from high school (SIX!) and we are able to block all of her calls and e-mails. In a normal divorce situation where both parents are able to put aside their difference and co-parent for their children's sake, this would not be necessary. But since she won't stop harrassing and threatening us, then she's lost that privilege.
I recommend that you and your SO work with a counselor who specializes in personality disorders and discuss how to set up and enforce Boundaries to protect your marriage from her.
at 5:57 PM on Aug. 13, 2010