I went with my mother and father in law the other night and was gone for 5 hours, my husband wanted sex before I left so I gave it to him...nothing abnormal there...then when i got home i checked the history and he was looking at porn and watching multiple videos....some of you may be wondering why i checked the history but it's only because he has a past of not wanting to tell me that he is or was talking to his ex here and there...he has never cheated on me and i know this as a given fact, but my question is why in the hell did he feel the need to look at porn, i kind of feel violated in some ways, because as i read everyone else's posts they say "well i think it's a form of cheating"...or "it builds up to cheating"...i wouldn't be so upset about it but my thing is now for two days he tells me he "wants it"...and i make ever effort to "give" it but again tonight he just went to bed...Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 12:35 AM on Oct. 7, 2008 in Relationships
hun my man does the same thing, i dont think it turns a man into a cheater, it jsut gives them a way to live out thier fantasys in a non-cheating way.. think of it this way, whould u rather him watch porn, or go out and have sex with a real person? i wouldnt give him a hard time, make it fun... ask him if thier is anything new he wants to try, or just wait for the right moment and spring up on him and make it feel like your doin somethin bad... maybe that is what he wants.. cause u know if he didnt want u to see the porn thing he would have erased it..... that is what i did with my man and he doesnt watch it much anymore, so i must have done somethin right!!
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