I have been married for almost 4 years, we have seven months old doughter. lately i have been thinking about leaving my husband, the problem is we are totaly different in every way, he is extremly lazy, overweight and is the most unromantic man alive! he works hard, he is always at home when he is not working, he is wonderfull with the baby and all that , BUT he let himself go n has put on so much weight, he carries himself poorly, i means really bad poisture n drags his feet, he is so unatractive n is not making any effort to better himself, we can be sitting on the couch waching a movie, and when i look at him( this happens like 90% of the time) he is dosing n! i look at him, and then look at his huge tummy and isay to myself ," how on earth did i end up with him?? " i can never stop asking my self that question, why????? i know i should have known him well before marriage, but believe me i dont know why i ever did it!!!Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 2:49 PM on Aug. 14, 2010 in Relationships
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Answer by browningmom at 2:59 PM on Aug. 14, 2010
Been there. My husband gained about 50 with each of my 2 pregnancies but didn't loose it after the babies were born. He gained so much that sex became impossible. The last 3 years of our marriage we didn't have sex.
However, if a woman gains weight during a marriage and a husband leaves her because she is unattractive and not making any attempt to better herself we would think he was awful. Your marriage may be able to be saved. I encourage you to go to counseling yourself or for you to go to counseling together.
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