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do u and your husband plan on having sex or does it just happened


Asked by Anonymous at 3:52 PM on Aug. 14, 2010 in Relationships

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  • a little of both...sometimes we'll talk about it in the afternoon and decide we will after the kids are in bed, other times we'll just get in the bed and start playing with eachother and it happens. i do like to know ahead of time because i prefer to be freshly shaved and my SO sometimes has some personal issues that prevent sex, so being spontaneous is not always possible...its always fun either way though ;)

    Answer by LoriaAnn at 7:23 PM on Aug. 14, 2010

  • It just happens. If we planned it, then it would not happen at that time. Also it would not be as good as unplanned sex.

    Answer by itsallabtthem84 at 3:53 PM on Aug. 14, 2010

  • Planned. If it was up to my DH we would be having sex all hours of the day and night. That is not how I like it. so I told him when he can have some. At that time or forget it. I do not like sex that much any ways.

    Answer by louise2 at 3:58 PM on Aug. 14, 2010

  • Always spontaneous.

    Answer by ashisamom at 3:58 PM on Aug. 14, 2010

  • most of the time it just happens but then again with a busy sch sometimes we have to try to plan it lol

    Answer by kimmie2116 at 3:58 PM on Aug. 14, 2010

  • Well since we are TTC we kinda plan it. We don't have a calendar or anything or say we have to that night.

    Answer by Misteh at 3:59 PM on Aug. 14, 2010

  • Well - he thinks it's spontaneous. I have to plan it. LOL
    I need to get myself motivated most of the time.

    Answer by ARmom at 3:59 PM on Aug. 14, 2010

  • we have a 4 year old daughter who likes to come in the room early so we always tell her if the door is closed knock before you come in.but we try and have sex early morning or if its on the weekend like sunday we shower together and have sex there.

    Answer by michelle34231 at 4:00 PM on Aug. 14, 2010

  • Just happens

    Answer by Claudiomom at 4:00 PM on Aug. 14, 2010

  • sometimes planned some times it just happens

    Answer by DeeMarie87 at 4:01 PM on Aug. 14, 2010

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