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Would you consider dating a man who has an arrest record for assault on a female, even if the charges were dropped?

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Asked by Anonymous at 3:55 PM on Aug. 15, 2010 in Relationships

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  • No no no no no......

    Answer by ladybugky88 at 3:56 PM on Aug. 15, 2010

  • no only because i have been hit before in my previous relationship and vowed to myself that i would never let that happen again so that would be way to much a risk for me imo though

    Answer by hotmama0820 at 3:56 PM on Aug. 15, 2010

  • F*** NO! You are just looking to get hit! Just becuase it was dropped doesn't mean it didn't happen. My brother assaulted me when I was 6 months pregnant and the chargers were dropped. I couldn't make the court appearance because I was in labor that day but the court wouldn't reschedule.

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 3:58 PM on Aug. 15, 2010

  • Nope.

    Charges can be dropped for a few different reasons. Charges being dropped does not necessarily mean it didn't happen.

    Why put myself in the position of possibly being assualted/battered/hit/abused willingly and knowingly..................

    Answer by pixie_trix at 3:58 PM on Aug. 15, 2010

  • Definitely not,,,,,,,,don't do it, you will be next for sure.


    Answer by zbee at 3:58 PM on Aug. 15, 2010

  • no i wouldnt risk you shouldnt either he may look like a nice guy but you never know you have to be carefull

    Answer by Ricanmami1 at 3:59 PM on Aug. 15, 2010

  • No. Charges being dropped doesn't mean anything. Maybe she just got too scared to keep going with them. Maybe he really didn't assault her. Nobody knows but them. I wouldn't take the chance.

    Answer by Kiwismommy19 at 3:59 PM on Aug. 15, 2010

  • NO!

    Answer by MTM at 3:59 PM on Aug. 15, 2010

  • i don't know, seriously, bc female where i am from have cried to the cops before without anything ever happening. just bc someone doesn't have charges doesn't mean they aren't a beater too. i never pressed charges on my ex bc i didn't want the drama and i was happy to be the f out of his house.

    Answer by angevil53 at 4:04 PM on Aug. 15, 2010

  • no--I like the good guys who are so law-abiding that they have never even gotten a speeding ticket. The nice guys are the best and don't ever let anyone tell you that only the bad guys are sexy. Bad just means bad.

    Answer by gertie41 at 4:11 PM on Aug. 15, 2010

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