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So if he beats you into miscarrying once, should you not tell when you find out you are pregnant again?

I am going to spin off of a previous question I answered, sort of....

I personally would NOT tell a guy if I know his response will be violence, but I also would not get pregnant by him or sleep with again after that first time.

What about you?


Asked by BriHan06 at 8:01 PM on Aug. 15, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (29)
  • if that's what she is knows in her life she won't know how or too scared too change

    Answer by natasha86 at 8:05 PM on Aug. 15, 2010

  • I can't even fathom why anyone would stay in a relationship like that.

    Answer by Glamourina at 8:02 PM on Aug. 15, 2010

  • Shouldn't even be around him to get pregnant or tell him anything the second time!

    Answer by ceallaigh at 8:03 PM on Aug. 15, 2010

  • OMG!! The guy beat that other OP into having a miscarriage?!?!?!? Holy Crap....what's that all about--considering he's a long-distance relationship and all!?!? No excuse, but he must be married!!!!

    Answer by LoriKeet at 8:03 PM on Aug. 15, 2010

  • I would not tell him, I would just leave. I have never been involved in an abusive relationship, but I know leaving is easier said than done. It's so sad that there are stories of these things actually happening.

    Answer by Courtney610 at 8:04 PM on Aug. 15, 2010

  • If both parents are that dumb - him for doing what he did and her to tolerating it - they probably shouldn't be reproducing in the first place. Best to get on birth control or get sterilized.

    Answer by karamille at 8:05 PM on Aug. 15, 2010

  • Kinda hard to do if they are living together. Anyone would be crazy to stay with him after that anyway.

    Answer by itsmesteph11 at 8:02 PM on Aug. 15, 2010

  • First of all, I would never be with a man that laid a hand on me. A man would NEVER get a chance to beat me into miscarrying. I would definitely never stay with a man who violently touched me.

    Answer by JGRIMMER at 8:04 PM on Aug. 15, 2010

  • Well if he beat her he should be in jail ... This way there is not question that another baby should be in the picture..

    Answer by MTM at 8:05 PM on Aug. 15, 2010

  • RUN LIKE THE WIND! I would not tell and would make sure everyone I know knew about why. Strength in numbers!

    Answer by josts at 8:06 PM on Aug. 15, 2010