I asked my relative if I could stay with her during a week long visit, and she said yes of course. THEN she tells me that her boyfriend's friend stays there, as well as his father. It just seems like too much to deal with. I have a toddler (my sis has young children as well), but I don't want to feel like I can't just have a nice visit with my sis and her kids without all of the distractions. And I'm already going to feel a little out of sorts (traveling cross country with my toddler, in a new environment, etc), and I'm not sure if these other people will make it even harder. Do you think I'm overreacting, or do you think I should make up an excuse as to why I'm going to stay in a nearby hotel?
Asked by Anonymous at 9:59 PM on Aug. 15, 2010 in Just for Fun
Answer by jesse123456 at 10:13 PM on Aug. 15, 2010
Answer by MTM at 10:04 PM on Aug. 15, 2010
Answer by Bmat at 10:02 PM on Aug. 15, 2010
Answer by pinkdragon36 at 10:02 PM on Aug. 15, 2010
I would just tell her you are staying elsewhere. I'm sure she would understand considering she has them there and might be feeling the same way. (overwhelmed) with the company but doesn't know how to deal with it. If it were me I would go else where I am one person who definitely needs her space for my kids sake...
Answer by nolaero at 10:06 PM on Aug. 15, 2010
Answer by bcauseimthemom at 10:30 PM on Aug. 15, 2010
Answer by kaysha at 11:37 PM on Aug. 15, 2010
No excuses just tell her you changed your mine and booked a hotel room ...
I agree with this answer, also I would do the same because there are too many people in that house it seems. Don't know the size of it, but would say that as well..Good luck hon
Answer by zbee at 8:20 PM on Aug. 17, 2010