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Why does society accept black men dating white women, more than white men dating black women

I know my head will be chewed to pieces for asking this question. After all I've been through in life , I have tough skin. This doens't mean I will be rude to you are disrespect your answer. I know I'll get plenty of anonymous answers in which I hate. I really want to know what your feeling is toward this question. I am not going to attack anyone or send you some rude email...It's not my makeup. Please don't attack me in a disrespectful way. Honestly I want to know what you think. This world will always be full of racist people so I think my question is valid. Be nice to everyone. Thanks. Oh! my question didn't have a proper category, but thanks for taking the time to share your thoghts. Remember be nice it is just your opinion.

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Asked by Godswk at 10:02 PM on Aug. 15, 2010 in Entertainment

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  • I'll bump you because I often wondered this myself.

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 10:04 PM on Aug. 15, 2010

  • I know it sounds racist which i'm not but I think its because white people are precived as whimpy and black people are strong. So you'd expect a strong man to take care a weak woman and not a strong woman to take care of a weak man. Just my opinion please no mean messages.

    Answer by pinkebabii at 10:05 PM on Aug. 15, 2010

  • I'm not sure why. I don't find your question rude or racist in any way, btw.

    Answer by LovingSAHMommy at 10:05 PM on Aug. 15, 2010

  • Where I lived at people did not really care. Where I live at people still don't care. We're just trying to work throught this economic thing.

    Answer by tryin2BGOOD at 10:10 PM on Aug. 15, 2010

  • I think part of it comes from there being many more black man/white woman couples out there than white man/black woman couples. The shock value just isn't there. But then again, this depends on the area.

    Answer by Ginger0104 at 10:11 PM on Aug. 15, 2010

  • Good question IDK.... Wish I could bump you. Hope someone answers this for you

    Answer by Truelove77 at 10:20 PM on Aug. 15, 2010

  • I've never felt that my relationship with my SO (who is white) was UNaccepted by anyone.

    Answer by Fallaya at 10:22 PM on Aug. 15, 2010

  • I don't see that women/men get treated different for dating outside of their race. In my experience I have never seen a women get treated differently for dating outside of her race compared to a man doing it.

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 10:28 PM on Aug. 15, 2010

  • I'm not really sure why that is but I know around where I live that most men wont even touch a woman who has even had sex with a black man. I don't think it is very much excepted either way around here. I dont have the views that others do but not many like the black people around here (there aren't too many).

    Answer by worriedmommy600 at 11:00 PM on Aug. 15, 2010

  • Your question is a good one tho. I've myself asked it, so with that in mind, I can't answer yours. I don't care who anyone dates, it's their business. But, have noticed that when a white man is seen with a black girl everyone is staring, why? There are beautiful black women.


    Answer by zbee at 8:16 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

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