The gras is allways greener on the other side. Make choices and stick to is. Be a good person. Don't cheat. Be loyal. Be nice to your little sister. Wanting what you can't have ... and all of that.... So, what did YOU get from "doing the right thing"?
As for me: So far is got me heartache, 3 years without ANY intimacy (due to partner's sickness), having to take care of household, work, child, husband, garden, personal administration and beeing a 7 hour ride away from any any familymember at all. Aaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Leaving him isn't fair. He's the father of my child, she adores him. I still love him, but that love has changed. If he get's to live another 10, 15 or even 20 years ... I don t know if I can do that. I'm scared to wake up one day and can t push away the feeling anymore that I wasted my youth.
What the h**** do I do?
Asked by Anonymous at 7:08 AM on Aug. 16, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by SCMomof2kids at 7:21 AM on Aug. 16, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 7:26 AM on Aug. 16, 2010
Answer by sailorwifenmom at 7:37 AM on Aug. 16, 2010
Answer by pinkdragon36 at 8:04 AM on Aug. 16, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 8:55 AM on Aug. 16, 2010
Open the marriage and keep the man you love while getting the intimacy you need while retaining your dignity and honesty. Get some counselling. Sounds like you have some grief issues, a lot of fears, and some resentment and anger built up. Work on those before making life altering decisions so you don't create future regrets. Make some time for yourself. Pamper yourself. Nurture yourself. Become who you are rather than an extension of your husband and the jobs that you do for other people. Talk to your husband, family and freinds. Surround yourself with them. Build up your support network. You don't have to live life alone.
Answer by isabellalecour at 10:21 AM on Aug. 16, 2010
Answer by figaro8895 at 10:28 AM on Aug. 16, 2010