Daughter is in YDC. Saturday we went down & saw her for a hr. After our hr me & my husband both agreed that she hasnt learned anything ! My daughter was placed in YDC after the judge has given her chance & chance again to straighten up. Needs to learn that the world doesnt revolve around her & certain behavior is unaccpetable. I need her to realize that my work as assisted me these past two weeks to be able to go see her but if the judge places her down there longer that I am not going to be able to get off. I want to go but I dont! I want to see her but I want her to realize that i cant always jump when she wants me to. I have two other kids. I love my daughter! My question is will I be doing her more harm if I didnt go see her tonight or will you think she will get it that if she is sentenced to YDC that I cant always drop what I am doing & stop my job to run down there & see her. Tough love?Answer Question
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Answer by louise2 at 3:49 PM on Oct. 7, 2008
My I ask what an 9-11 year old could do that was so bad? I am not bashing just asking. But I don't think not going to see her will help she needs to know that you will be there for her no matter what. I do not know you whole situation so I could be wrong. I just can't even imanage not seeing my daughter no matter what she did.
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