This is an honest question because I'm confused as a bio mom. I see a lot of groups here for SM and not all but a lot of them just complain about their situation..being a SM. My confusion is that it's not like they didn't know the situation. The guy they like is divorced, he's got kids, bio mom is still in their lives...Most of the women have dated the guy before getting married(I assume) so it's not like they didn't know the situation. Communication should always be key in dating so there should be no surprises. I mean didn't you all know what was in store for you? I don't get it...why are step moms so angry so much? I think they have no one to blame but themselves if they don't like the arrangement. Do SM just not realize what they are in for? Didn't date long enough? Did hubby really not clue you in?
Please try not to be angry at me for asking I want to get beyond any anger and really understand.
Answer by Memigen at 12:38 PM on Aug. 16, 2010
Answer by jorjiegirl at 12:43 PM on Aug. 16, 2010
Answer by JenSzat at 12:59 PM on Aug. 16, 2010
Answer by SavannasMommy09 at 1:25 PM on Aug. 16, 2010
I think that most don't look at the big picture for all that being a SM entails.
Answer by zbee at 3:05 PM on Aug. 16, 2010
Answer by 3xangel at 7:47 PM on Aug. 16, 2010
Answer by matthewscandi at 8:46 PM on Aug. 16, 2010
Answer by matthewscandi at 8:47 PM on Aug. 16, 2010
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