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do you remember people on here? for excessive amounts of time? if you DONT do you think its creepy that women do?

i have sortof a cafemom stalker apparently! this is the second time she (or he) has claimed things that they knew about me as if they remembered things i wrote (which i didnt) before
i find this creepy/scary honestly, whatr your thoughts? do you remember people on cafemom? does it affect you to the point of holding onto that information in your brain?

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Asked by Anonymous at 6:39 PM on Aug. 16, 2010 in General Parenting

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  • I've heard several members say they have had stalkers

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 6:40 PM on Aug. 16, 2010

  • I had a stalker so I deactivated my profile and created a new one. I'm free!!!

    To answer your question.. I usually don't remember what other members say unless it's something out of the ordinary. Like a mom said that her child run away and I remember how it happened and who the mom is. I just can't get that off my mind.

    But yeah, stalkers are creepy!

    Answer by pipermomofash at 6:44 PM on Aug. 16, 2010

  • I keep hearing about "stalkers" .... Yikes. Does cm do anything about it?

    Answer by thelowlander at 6:47 PM on Aug. 16, 2010

  • i agree, unless it is out of the ordinary then no.

    Answer by bzyblondmomof5 at 6:49 PM on Aug. 16, 2010

  • if i remember someone's screen name, i just remember general things about them i might know like their stance on abortion, or some other controvercial subject. for me it's just an association probably bc i have seen them post several times about that certain topic. now, does that affect my life? no lol. it is just something that pops into my mind when i see their screen name. i am sorry that you had a stalker. that must be creepy. i hope it's just somebody who is bored..... not a psychopath or anything

    Answer by princessbeth79 at 6:55 PM on Aug. 16, 2010

  • im actually pretty insulted. she brought up my mil and my mil is dead. died in my arms practically. i reported her profile but i doubt cafemom will do anything, i just asked them to ask her to leave me alone

    Answer by mrs.pyle at 6:57 PM on Aug. 16, 2010

  • Wow, this is scary stuff! I'm glad to say I haven't experienced any of this.

    Answer by jacksmom3707 at 8:05 PM on Aug. 16, 2010

  • I didn't know cafemom had stalkers. I will definitely watch what I say.

    Answer by reigndrops12689 at 10:30 PM on Aug. 16, 2010

  • I honestly don't remember many moms, usually not unless I've messaged back & forth with them or we're in the same groups or something. There are some names I recall here in Answers because they post often, but if you asked me what they post about, odds are high I couldn't tell you. Stalking is creepy and a sign of a sick mind and I would be upset about it, too.

    Answer by mom2aspclboy at 10:36 PM on Aug. 16, 2010

  • slapping foreheadseems strange....


    Answer by JoLee12345 at 10:05 AM on Aug. 17, 2010

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