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do you think your man would be cheating if he stays out late all the time...

when my sister was preggo her bf used to leave the house and say "well baby i want to get all my partying out b4 the baby comes... but he does call her...

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Asked by Patientchild3 at 2:22 AM on Aug. 17, 2010 in Relationships

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  • It depends. If she knows what he's doing, knows who he's with (and I mean knows for a fact), and doesn't have a problem getting ahold of him when he's gone then he may not be doing anything wrong. Did he stop after she had the baby?

    Answer by jessicarae787 at 2:24 AM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • yes he did a 180 times 2... but he has never stopped thinking she has cheated on him.. hummmm

    Comment by Patientchild3 (original poster) at 2:25 AM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • What? He was out and he thinks she cheated on him...


    Answer by Niki_sd at 2:27 AM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • yes aint that a mess and since the baby came he dam near believes its not his...

    Comment by Patientchild3 (original poster) at 2:28 AM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • Ugh men! My DH asked my sister "so I met your boyfriend when do I meet Holly's(that's me)" he has even told me he knows better but he just can't help being jealous. He also has a habit of not always coming home from work right a way. What is his reason for thinking the child isn't his?

    Answer by crazymom21 at 3:05 AM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • Sounds like the classic guilty conscience! Unless he has some real reason to doubt her, his accusing her is a BIG red flag in my book!!!

    Answer by LittleWeloosMom at 3:33 AM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • Sounds funny to me. We had a friend cheated on his wife. She was potty traineing the liitle boy, seat up some times. He'd come home & swear she had a man in the house & she was cheating. Seems those that cheat always do have a guilty conscience.This couple finally did end up divorcing. She was probably better off any way.

    Answer by MyAngel003 at 8:46 AM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • He could have been, or he could have been doing exactly what he was saying. Did she have any indication he was cheating (other than not being home?) Does he treat her well?

    Answer by Scuba at 10:29 AM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • Well if hes saying she cheated, then maybe he did, guilty dog barks first. But if the baby was his first baby & hes changed after the baby got here, then maybe not... Idk how many men are going to call their preggo gf/wife, while with the other woman.

    Answer by lilmoosesmom at 11:53 AM on Aug. 17, 2010


    Answer by Conley639 at 4:16 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

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