Is it just that it makes people uncomfortable or that its actually something bad to openly acknowledge someone is just an attractive human being. A person can't control what they notice or what catches their eyes, let alone what they are thinking and keeping to themselves.
Answer by sopranomommy at 11:24 AM on Aug. 17, 2010
Answer by yourspecialkid at 12:13 PM on Aug. 17, 2010
Answer by lovinangels at 10:53 AM on Aug. 17, 2010
Answer by MommaTasha1003 at 10:56 AM on Aug. 17, 2010
For me, it all depends on the words people use. I don't mind friends and family complimenting my children on their looks or whatever. If a stranger says something about my children, it will all depend on the words they use. At the post office once DD was smiling and hiding from the man in line behind me. He kept smiling at her and it was a little game of sorts. She is 4 but is tall and looks like she could be and older 5 y.o. I asked her quietly if she was flirting (teasing her) and he apparently heard me and said 'yes, she is. She is a little vixen, isn't she?' Sorry, but don't use words like Vixen for a 4 y.o. That's friggen creepy. These things have happened a couple of times and they creep me out. If someone says 'her eyes are so pretty' or 'your DD is beautiful', I simply say thank you because it's just a compliment.
Answer by QuinnMae at 12:20 PM on Aug. 17, 2010
As to WHEN specifically it's acceptable for an older person to notice that a 16 y.o. is becoming a hottie? I don't know. I think even if my DD were 25 and a hottie I would be creeped out if a 50 y.o. man said as much in front of me.
Answer by QuinnMae at 2:44 PM on Aug. 17, 2010
IDK about the rest of the ladies out there, but I don't find the twilight guys as anything to scream about. They look more like boys than men. But that's just me.
Answer by QuinnMae at 12:37 PM on Aug. 18, 2010
Answer by JGRIMMER at 7:52 AM on Aug. 17, 2010
Answer by Syphon at 7:54 AM on Aug. 17, 2010