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How long did it take you to bond with your kids?

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Mamato2angels

Asked by Mamato2angels at 3:05 PM on Aug. 17, 2010 in Babies (0-12 months)

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  • ? Not long..as soon as I knew I was pregnant.
    BradenIsMySon

    Answer by BradenIsMySon at 3:05 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • Bonding was right after they were born.
    older

    Answer by older at 3:05 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • I felt kinda disconnected at birth because they had given me demoral and it made me sick but once that wore off, we bonded almost immediately.
    Jademom07

    Answer by Jademom07 at 3:06 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • agree with BradenIsMySon....As soon as I knew I was pregnant I was already in love with my litttle guy
    BlainesMommy09

    Answer by BlainesMommy09 at 3:06 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • I bonded with them while I was pregnant, when I had them they were more comfortable with me from the start.
    colethky

    Answer by colethky at 3:06 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • I bonded with them when I was pregnant with them.
    DesertRose75

    Answer by DesertRose75 at 3:08 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • when I found out I was pregnant.
    SabrenaLeigh

    Answer by SabrenaLeigh at 3:08 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • it was almost instant once they got placed in my arms i didnt want them out of my sight. and breast feeding help make that bond stronger. its funny cuz my daughter will place and try to tell me what she wants and i know what she wants but myhusband gets puzzled and cant understand what she is wanting.
    laura970

    Answer by laura970 at 3:08 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • From the moment I found out I was preggers!! It got stronger around 18-20 months when we found out the sex and we named them!! :o)

    Morgain

    Answer by Morgain at 3:09 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • As soon as I knew I was pregnant I was in love..
    After birth I loved her very much but did have the "is she really mine?" and kinda felt like someone may come & get her after a long stay or something.. But I still felt very bonded to her..
    MommaTasha1003

    Answer by MommaTasha1003 at 3:19 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

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