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Can you talk to your husband like he's your best friend?

Just wondering if anyone else has this issue. What can I do to fix this? I want to be able to tell him whats wrong or whats bothering me, and just to be able to talk but I just dont feel like I can. Why is this??

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mommaof3girls24

Asked by mommaof3girls24 at 5:32 PM on Aug. 17, 2010 in Relationships

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  • yes i can me and my husband talk about everything we have no secrets...
    jesslovesyou08

    Answer by jesslovesyou08 at 5:34 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • My husband is my best friend, we can talk to each other about anything.
    MTM

    Answer by MTM at 5:34 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • But how can I fix this? I really want to be able to talk to him....
    mommaof3girls24

    Comment by mommaof3girls24 (original poster) at 5:35 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • Yes ... but my answer to help you would be a religiously based one. Let me know if you still want it.
    Gal51

    Answer by Gal51 at 5:35 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • I have been with my fiance for 9 months and I am just now being able to be completely open with him
    noahsmommy12908

    Answer by noahsmommy12908 at 5:35 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • yes dh is my best friend ..

    maybe ur not all that comfortable with him?

    r u frightened of his reaction or something?
    san78

    Answer by san78 at 5:35 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • I'm with MTM, but I don't know how to help you feel like you can. I think for me I just had to move past the "pause and decide if I should say something" moment and just stay stuff. It took some work, but it was worth it.
    MamaSarah1104

    Answer by MamaSarah1104 at 5:36 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • yes I would love to hear a religiously based answer!!!!
    mommaof3girls24

    Comment by mommaof3girls24 (original poster) at 5:36 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • I think that is something you two will need to examine as a couple. I could be a lot of things. I am lucky, I have the easiest husband in the world, but there are times when he thinks I'm gonna be mad at him, or he thinks he's bothering me so he wouldn't talk to me. We had to figure that out.
    Musicmom80

    Answer by Musicmom80 at 5:36 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • Are you unable to talk to him because of you or because of him? or both?
    Gal51

    Answer by Gal51 at 5:37 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

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