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realtionship trouble, trying hard, how can i get him to try a bit adult content

we are going to therapy
well just once so far, but another in a week

i have asked him to touch me just a bit, like not just peck goodbye, but a carass

i am so untouched!!
and i do not count him rolling me over after he watches pron to stick it up a hole

i know, i know, sounds like he does not respect or care for me at all

just thought if he touched me a bit when we are not having sex, it may tranfer to bedroom and maybe maybe maybe he would care again about my needs or care about me at all


Asked by fiatpax at 6:08 PM on Aug. 17, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (5)
  • I can not say anything you do not already know, or the other PP, have said :(

    I am here to talk to if you need a friend ♥♥♥♥

    Answer by SissyAnn141 at 7:54 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • Hon,I'm surprised after all you've told us about his,"hobby",that you'd still want any sex with him at all!
    He's never come across as giving or understanding in your posts.
    If he hasn't done it already,I highly doubt he will now.
    I'm so sorry!

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 6:11 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • You deserve a hell of alot better than he's willing to give.

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 6:19 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • Regardless if he cares for you or not .. If he's not making the effort to try then there is nothing you can do to make him. In all forms of change if they are not willing to change they are nto going to change. So you have to ask him if he's willing to make it work?

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 6:24 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • thanks butterfly
    nice to hear from you again
    he did agree to therapy and one our first session, he said some things that i think surprised the therapist, although i know she is trained not to show sides, she did seem a bit jaw dropped

    i just want to have my family back

    my toddler up, have to go
    will be back later to check on question and ANY ideas to get through to him

    maybe i am just fooling myself into trying everything to save our family
    i DO daydream about a man (any man) that shows interest in me, not a sex interest, and just a day dream, but i think it shows how ignored i am

    Comment by fiatpax (original poster) at 6:14 PM on Aug. 17, 2010