I have done all I can to shelter my kids from knowing the violence that was present in my past marriage. my exhusband is telling my kids things that are not true and very outrageous. my son has decided to believe everything and calls his step mother mom and calls me by my first name. my daughter is visiting (visitation) and has been allowed by their household to speak to me rudely and demanded to be left with them. Not sure if there is any hope at getting through this. the kids are 15 and 16 so not sure if I should just let them go and hope that they find the truth in their adulthood. I have always tried to stay away from conflict with my exhusband because he was always very violent with me and I prefer not to be involved in a situation that could possibly cause physical harm as well as the mental harm he is already causing.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 9:07 PM on Aug. 17, 2010 in Teens (13-17)
Answer by annabellelee at 9:07 PM on Aug. 17, 2010
Been there, done that. Get some good counseling and no matter what, love your children and never, ever speak badly about their dad or his new wife.
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