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3 Bumps

broke of the wedding (became a lesbian)- got back together 3yrs later and now 3 months later pregnant!

little too quick? PURPOSLY got pregnant- hadn't seen each other for those 3yrs except occional
Engaged again but not sure "if a wedding is really in the near future"


Asked by Anonymous at 10:13 PM on Aug. 17, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (12)
  • Maybe the woman just wanted a baby...came back to the ex to get pregnant..can't get that from a woman.

    Answer by kimberlyinberea at 10:20 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • You dont BECOME a either ARE or AREN'T and if you like both, then you are BI-SEXUAL. It's not something you turn off and on.

    Answer by xoxticiaxox at 10:25 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • oh my

    Answer by candle5 at 10:14 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • I would say VERY quick- how does he even know he can trust again or that they or you REALLY want to be together now? I hop eit works out for the childs sake- but DAMN that sounds like a mess waiting to explode

    Answer by lovmyhubby at 10:18 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • no need for a wedding ur already attached for life...

    Answer by mariposalee at 10:19 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • did you want a baby and got engaged until it happens. i agree you are attached for life now. but if you think you are a lesbian, why put your ex through that when you may become one again? isn't everything easier the second time around?

    Answer by candle5 at 10:22 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • why did you purposely get pregnant? Are you trying to trap the guy or something? We need more details.

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 10:25 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • why the rush to get pregnant?

    Answer by lovmyhubby at 10:19 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • so..did you just want to have a child, or what? if you don't love the man, then don't marry him. straighten up your life and raise your child, with whomever or alone. just quit dawdling with the feelings of others.

    Answer by dullscissors at 10:19 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

  • Is there a way to vote down a question? This is almost completely incomprehensible. Are you the one who "was" a lesbian and then got pregnant? Or is this something that is happening to one of your friends? And if the latter, is the friend the guy or the girl (or the ex-girlfriend)? The use of quotation marks seems to indicate that this is not you who is not ready for the wedding...

    Answer by FelipesMom at 10:29 PM on Aug. 17, 2010

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