my boyfriend of 4 years officially declared that he needs some free time and space for himself, and that he is going to move back in with his mother so that he will no longer have to pay rent/bills etc, which means that i will either have to move back home with my mom or quickly find somewhere else to live in the next month or so. he said the pressure of paying bills and being broke is too much for him and he fees that going back home would save him loads of money and he would have all the time in the world to hang out with his buddies. but im no idiot, i can sense that he just doesnt want to be with me anymore. he says he needs to get out of the situation to see clearly. i say he is looking for an out. i dont think he has the same feelings for me anymore. i am sad but im trying to wish his ass goodbye bc he doesnt deserve all the love i have for him. im FURIOUS inside and now hes trying to recant a little but i dont buy it...Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 1:27 AM on Aug. 18, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by MoMoFu at 1:30 AM on Aug. 18, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 1:30 AM on Aug. 18, 2010
I am sorry you are going through this. I don;t know him, but he strikes me as a very immature person. When you are in a committed relationship, financial issues are part of being an adult. As much as you may want him back, I think you should take time and find out how to take care of yourself. You just may find that in a short time, you will be better off without him. Hugs, keep us posted. G-d Bless.
Answer by Joeygoat at 1:34 AM on Aug. 18, 2010
He sounds like someone who needs a wakeup call.... it's called being an adult... I'm sorry you have to deal with this..... they have places you can post adds for roomates... do you have children? GL hun!!
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